Sorry for being so late with the update. Super hectic day! Let me begin by letting everyone know that Tamra's health is still good. She was up and about most all day and was visited by a friend at her old work Mountain America. She really enjoyed seeing her. Also she had a visit from a very nice woman from the church. They all have been very supportive and have been asking if there is anything they can do for her and us.
Jared and his wife and kids along with Mandy and her daughter stopped by and raised Tamra's spirits i know. She just loves seeing who she considers her grandkids!
As for Tamra's release from the hospital goes, it will be happening tomorrow. I will not go into some of the drama that was caused by social worker at the hospital. Let's just say she just made quite a few things more difficult for us instead of making things easier which i believe is her job!
There was a meeting with Dr. Lemon at about 6ish to discuss Tamra's "options" when it comes to home health care or hospice. For now...(And this may change after Tamra has a bit of time to think about it) she has decided to go with hospice. The wonderful people at Rocky Mountain Health Care are set to join us at the hospital tomorrow between 11am and 1pm to get her ready to go home. They will have everything that Tamra will need to be comfortable at her house. We are really happy to have her back in familiar surroundings and we think that this will also give her some peace.
I would like to also mention how caring Dr. Lemon was when Tamra needed him. He really does care about her well being and we are very thankful to him for that. Bart's wife Pennie will be making a trip down tomorrow to help Tamra get settled in and i really think that it will be nice for Pennie and her discuss things since Pennie has had to make hard health choices herself. Thank you Pennie!
Well that's if for now. I will be having to leave to get back to work in Salt Lake tomorrow but hopefully i or someone in the family will be able to update this on a regular basis for you all.
One last thing. We think it best that Tamra gets settled in at home for a couple of days before anyone call there to speak with her. As you can imagine she has a lot to think about and may still be tired from the move. So if you could please wait until Monday before you try and reach her there. She has told me that she wants to talk with all of you but i would prefer she do it when she has rested up. I hope you all understand.
Thanks for your prayers and if you could say a special one for us. She is back and forth on what kind of treatment she should choose. We just want the lord to give her a sign as to what she should do and be sure about it. So if you could ask him to give her confidence in a decision that would be wonderful.
God bless all of you
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Tamra Juretich Tapp
Tamra Juretich Tapp
Our loving, wife, mother & grandmother age 67 passed away on Thursday, February 19, 2009 at home after a brief battle with Pancreatic Cancer.
She was born July 16th, 1941 in Murray Utah to Matt & Claudia Juretich and later married Jackie Thomas Tapp February 20th, 1960 in Coalville Utah.
Tamra began high school at West High and later graduated from Jordan High in 1959.
She started dancing at the age of 3, was a member of the Jordan High Dance Company with her best friend Penny Walker and later preformed on the Ted Mack show as a beautiful gifted young woman. As a young mother she taught ballet, tap, jazz and modern dance in the basement of her home on Coventry Lane and had a positive influence on the children she taught.
Tamra loved her time serving in the Young Women’s program of the Church. Her greatest joy was teaching and laughing with the Young Women she served. She especially had fond memories as Stake camp director while living in Silver Reef, Utah.
Tamra enjoyed working with her friends at Sunfirst Bank in Hurricane and St. George Utah, where she was always the life of the party. She especially enjoyed working alongside Mont Humphries who she considered one of her closest friends.
Most of all Tamra loved her children, grand children and her husband Jack of 48 years and will miss them dearly!
Tamra’s catch phrase throughout her life was “have a nice day and smile all the way” and loved anything that was bright and sparkly. She was always thinking of others and had the innate ability to make others feel comfortable around her.
Instead of flowers Tamra has requested that you provide an act of kindness for someone in need.
Thank you to the staff at Intermountain Healthcare and Rocky Mountain Healthcare who assisted with her care. Specifically we would like to thank her nurse Julie and CNA Sally who took such good care of her during the end of her earthly life.
Our loving, wife, mother & grandmother age 67 passed away on Thursday, February 19, 2009 at home after a brief battle with Pancreatic Cancer.
She was born July 16th, 1941 in Murray Utah to Matt & Claudia Juretich and later married Jackie Thomas Tapp February 20th, 1960 in Coalville Utah.
Tamra began high school at West High and later graduated from Jordan High in 1959.
She started dancing at the age of 3, was a member of the Jordan High Dance Company with her best friend Penny Walker and later preformed on the Ted Mack show as a beautiful gifted young woman. As a young mother she taught ballet, tap, jazz and modern dance in the basement of her home on Coventry Lane and had a positive influence on the children she taught.
Tamra loved her time serving in the Young Women’s program of the Church. Her greatest joy was teaching and laughing with the Young Women she served. She especially had fond memories as Stake camp director while living in Silver Reef, Utah.
Tamra enjoyed working with her friends at Sunfirst Bank in Hurricane and St. George Utah, where she was always the life of the party. She especially enjoyed working alongside Mont Humphries who she considered one of her closest friends.
Most of all Tamra loved her children, grand children and her husband Jack of 48 years and will miss them dearly!
Tamra’s catch phrase throughout her life was “have a nice day and smile all the way” and loved anything that was bright and sparkly. She was always thinking of others and had the innate ability to make others feel comfortable around her.
Instead of flowers Tamra has requested that you provide an act of kindness for someone in need.
Thank you to the staff at Intermountain Healthcare and Rocky Mountain Healthcare who assisted with her care. Specifically we would like to thank her nurse Julie and CNA Sally who took such good care of her during the end of her earthly life.
Up to date information for friends and family of Tamra Tapp
1/12/09
About a month ago Tamra had a recurrence of some back pain which she has had on and off for years. She had some physical therapy done but it had little effect. Over the following weeks she was very tired and sleepy. The pain had progressed over time and so she had Misty take her into the St George hospital on December 31 to get at CT scan to see if the liver was the issue of her pain. The nurses at the hospital sent her home and said they would send the scans to the doctors for review.
The doctors called on the January 5th to check on here pain and suggested that she come in for a biopsy her liver on the January 6th. She had this done and had to wait until January 8th for the results. Upon receiving the results of the biopsy the family doctor suggested we meet a hospital oncologist because he had concerns about what he was seeing on the CT scan and what showed up in the biopsy results.
An appointment was set up with the Oncologist today at the Huntsman Cancer wing here in St George. Without knowing fully all the medical lingo here is what we learned today. Apparently as some point (nobody knows exactly when) a cancer started at the bottom head of her pancreas. It has traveled from it starting point to just outside the pancreas and has since spread to the liver. Unfortunately there is not a specific treatment for where this cancer started. This is not to say that there are not treatments that can be done because there are but there is no chance of a complete cure.
Tamra has decided on a course of treatment as suggested by the oncologist. Her pain is being managed at the moment and will be modified as needed. It is her and our wish that she be kept pain free even at the cost maybe losing a few months of her life. We will be exploring all treatments as some may work and others may not. We all have agreed on this course and just want what is best for Tamra.
As her treatments and her condition changes I hope either myself, Bart, Misty or Shane will update you all with any new information. Jack is obviously very distressed by this news and I would hope you would all keep him in your prayers as well as he loves Tamra dearly!
On a personal note I would like to ask one favor of all of you. We are creating this blog mainly for Tamra to be able to log in and read messages from her loved ones and be able to send her feelings back to them when she is feeling up to it. So if you could, please do not use this board to leave messages for other family members. Misty and I have found many of our relatives on Face book and love catching up with them there. And just so you know this is also one of Tamra’s biggest wishes as she expressed to us today. She has always wanted the family to stay together and to keep in touch!
Finally, my thanks to all my family for making a bad situation bearable. To my older brother Bart and his wife Pennie. Thank you for being the strong ones and helping organize all that you have. To my little brother Shane and his wife Jamie. Thank you for taking such good care of both Tamra and Jack now and for being there for them over the years while Bart and I have been in Salt Lake. Also thank you to my little sister Misty and her husband Doug for always doing what you can to do help and helping Tamra and Jack whenever they needed you. I love you all!
Chet
3 comments:
Hi Chet,
Thanks for keeping us all updated! I really appreciate it!
Please tell Aunt Tamara I LOVE HER!
love ya
Heather
I am glad to hear that you are home I hope that you can make that decision that you feel is right for you and your family. I wish you the best you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hey Tamra, it's Teresa from the bank. I have been thinking about you a lot, and hoping you are feeling better. It is awfully quiet on the second floor these days. Know that you are missed and we are all hoping for the best for you! Keep your chin up! ( I know that you will)
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